By Kim Wildman
MSN NZ Travel writer
Travelling can be an extraordinary experience, but it can also be quite daunting. Travelling as a woman — especially alone — can complicate matters even further. From unwanted verbal attention to inappropriate touching, women continue to face more challenging situations when travelling than men do. But don't let these concerns stop you. By taking a few simple precautions, you can make your trip easier. To help you out, here are our seven top tips for women travellers.
Dress appropriately
Leave the revealing clothes at home. Clothing that is fashionable and appropriate in New Zealand may project a provocative image in another culture. Some cultures find it offensive or even consider it enticement for women to wear short skirts, shorts or even bathing suits. If you're unsure, take your cues from the local women, who set the standard for what attire is acceptable. Consider wearing a wedding ring, which can quickly deflect unwanted attention.
Carry a personal safety device
Avoid walking around deserted streets after dark, even if you are with a companion. If you can't, then carry a small flashlight or other personal safety device in your hand. Even a simple whistle may cause just enough of a distraction to give you a chance to escape an unpleasant situation. Again, know the standards of the country you are visiting, as certain safety devices may not be allowed.
Exude confidence
When travelling alone (or even with a group), act confidently and adopt a no nonsense attitude. Walk with purpose and you'll be less of a target for hustlers who prey on disoriented tourists. Always look like you know where you're going — even if you don't! Try to avoid looking at maps while you're in the street. Study your route beforehand or find one of those wallet-sized maps which you can discreetly refer to if necessary.
Stick with a group
It is unlikely that you will be approached or harassed if you're in the company of other people. So try to sit or stand next to other women or family groups in restaurants, on trains or buses and in other public places.
Watch your back
If you are being followed, duck into a nearby shop and wait until the person has passed. If a situation of harassment escalates, making a scene can sometimes be effective, as many societies place a high premium on respecting social norms. Learn to say "Go away!" in the local language and use it firmly. If all else fails, don't be afraid to ask for help.
Lose the handbag
It is not uncommon for a would-be thief to cut the straps of a handbag and then disappear into a thick sea of bodies with all your valuables. The best way to avoid this is to wear a money belt. However, constantly reaching under your shirt for money draws attention to it and tends to defeat the purpose. So carry enough money in a small money pouch that will cover all incidental daily expenses.
Use common sense
Using common sense is perhaps the single best tip for staying safe and having a good time while you're travelling alone. This includes the usual recommendations: don't walk around late at night, don't drink with strange men, don't ride in empty compartments on trains and don't compromise safety to save a few bucks on a hotel or transportation.
The bottom line for women travellers is to look and act confident, be alert and use common sense. The key is to maintain awareness while not become overly paranoid. After all, travelling is meant to be fun!
